CHAPTER I.
CHANGES OBSERVABLE DURING PUBERTY AND ADOLESCENCE IN GIRLS.
1. Changes in the Bodily Framework.—During this period the girl's
skeleton not only grows remarkably in size, but is also the subject of
well-marked alterations and development. Among the most evident changes are
those which occur in the shape and inclination of the pelvis. During the years
of childhood the female pelvis has a general resemblance to that of the male,
but with the advent of puberty the vertical portion of the hip bones becomes
expanded and altered in shape, it becomes more curved, and its inner surface
looks less directly forward and more towards its fellow bone of the other side.
The brim of the pelvis, which in the child is more or less heart-shaped, becomes
a wide oval, and consequently the pelvic girdle gains considerably in width. The
heads of the thigh bones not only actually, in consequence of growth, but also
relatively, in consequence of change of shape in the pelvis, become more widely
separated from each other than they are in childhood, and hence the gait and the
manner of running alters greatly in the adult woman. At the
same time the angle made by the junction of the spinal column with the back of
the pelvis, known as the sacro-vertebral angle, becomes better marked, and this
also contributes to the development of the characteristic female type. No doubt
the female type of pelvis can be recognised in childhood, and even before birth,
but the differences of male and female pelves before puberty are so slight that
it requires the eye of an expert to distinguish them. The very remarkable
differences that are found between the adult male and the adult female pelvis
begin to appear with puberty and develop rapidly, so that no one could mistake
the pelvis of a properly developed girl of sixteen or eighteen years of age for
that of a boy. These differences are due in part to the action of the muscles
and ligaments on the growing bones, in part to the weight of the body from above
and the reaction of the ground from beneath, but they are also largely due to
the growth and development of the internal organs peculiar to the woman. All
these organs exist in the normal infant at birth, but they are relatively
insignificant, and it is not until the great developmental changes peculiar to
puberty occur that they begin to exercise their influence on the shape of the
bones. This is proved by the fact that in those rare cases in which the internal
organs of generation are absent, or fail to develop, there is a corresponding
failure in the pelvis to alter into the normal adult shape. The muscles of the
growing girl partake in the rapid growth and development of
her bony framework. Sometimes the muscles outgrow the bones, causing a peculiar
lankiness and slackness of figure, and in other girls the growth of the bones
appears to be too rapid for the muscles, to which fact a certain class of
"growing pain" has been attributed.
Another part of the body that develops rapidly during these momentous years
is the bust. The breasts become large, and not only add to the beauty of the
girl's person, but also manifestly prepare by increase of their glandular
elements for the maternal function of suckling infants.
Of less importance so far as structure is concerned, but of great importance
to female loveliness and attractiveness, are the changes that occur in the
clearing and brightening of the complexion, the luxuriant growth, glossiness,
and improved colour of the hair, and the beauty of the eyes, which during the
years which succeed puberty acquire a new and singularly attractive
expression.
The young girl's hands and feet do not grow in proportion with her legs and
arms, and appear to be more beautifully shaped when contrasted with the more
fully developed limb.
With regard to the internal organs, the most important are those of the
pelvis. The uterus, or womb, destined to form a safe nest for the protection of
the child until it is sufficiently developed to maintain an independent
existence, increases greatly in all its dimensions and undergoes certain changes
in shape; and the ovaries, which are intended to furnish the
ovules, or eggs (the female contribution towards future human beings), also
develop both in size and in structure.
Owing to rapid growth and to the want of stability of the young girl's
tissues, the years immediately succeeding puberty are not only those of rapid
physiological change, but they are those during which irreparable damage may be
done unless those who have the care of young girls understand what these dangers
are, how they are produced, and how they may be averted.
With regard to the bony skeleton, lateral curvature of the spine is, in mild
manifestation, very frequent, and is too common even in the higher degrees. The
chief causes of this deformity are:
(1) The natural softness and want of stability in the rapidly growing bones
and muscles;
(2) The rapid development of the bust, which throws a constantly increasing
burden on these weakened muscles and bones; and
(3) The general lassitude noticeable amongst girls at this time which makes
them yield to the temptation to stand on one leg, to cross one leg over the
other, and to write or read leaning on one elbow and bending over the table,
whereas they ought to be sitting upright. Unless constant vigilance is exerted,
deformity is pretty sure to occur—a deformity which always has a bad influence
over the girl's health and strength, and which, in those cases where it is
complicated by the pathological softness of bones found in cases of rickets, may
cause serious alteration in shape and interfere with the
functions of the pelvis in later life.
2. Changes in the Mental Nature.—These are at least as remarkable as
the changes in the bodily framework. There is a slight diminution in the power
of memorising, but the faculties of attention, of reasoning, and of imagination,
develop rapidly. Probably the power of appreciation of the beautiful appears
about this time, a faculty which is usually dormant during childhood. More
especially is this true with regard to the beauty of landscape; the child seldom
enjoys a landscape as such, although isolated beauties, such as that of flowers,
may sometimes be appreciated.
As might be anticipated, all things are changing with the child during these
momentous years: its outlook on life, its appreciation of other people and of
itself, alter greatly and continuously. The wonderfully rapid growth and
alterations in structure of the generative organs have their counterpart in the
mental and moral spheres; there are new sensations which are scarcely recognised
and are certainly not understood by the subject: vague feelings of unrest,
ill-comprehended desires, and an intense self-consciousness take the place of
the unconscious egoism of childhood.
The processes of Nature as witnessed in the season of spring have their
counterpart in the changes that occur during the early years of adolescence. The
earth warmed by the more direct rays of the sun and softened by recurring
showers is transformed in a few weeks from its bare and dry
winter garb into the wonderful beauty of spring. This yearly miracle fails to
impress us as it should do because we have witnessed it every year of our lives,
and so, too, the great transformation from child to budding woman fails to make
its appeal to our understanding and sympathy because it is of so common
occurrence. If it were possible for adults to really remember their own feelings
and aspirations in adolescent years, or if it were possible for us with
enlightened sympathy to gain access to the enchanted garden of youth, we should
be more adequate guides for the boys and girls around us. As it is we entirely
fail to appreciate the heights of their ambitions, hopes, and joys, and we have
no measure with which to plumb the depths of their fears, their disappointments,
and their doubts. The transition between radiant joy and confident hope in the
future to a miserable misinterpretation of sensations both physical and
psychical are rapid. It is the unknown that is terrible to us all, and to the
child the changes in its body, the changes in its soul and spirit, which we pass
by as commonplace, are full of suggestions of abnormality, of disaster, and of
death. Young people suffer much from the want of comprehension and intelligent
sympathy of their elders, much also from their own ignorance and too fervid
imagination. The instability of the bodily tissues and the variability of their
functions find a counterpart in the instability of the mental and moral natures
and in the variability of their phenomena. Adolescents indeed
"never continue in one stay;" left to themselves they will begin many pursuits,
but persevere with, and finish, nothing.
Youth is the time for rapidly-succeeding friends, lovers, and heroes. The
schoolfellow or teacher who is adored to-day may become the object of
indifference or even of dislike to-morrow. Ideas as to the calling or profession
to be adopted change rapidly, and opinions upon religion, politics, &c.,
vary from day to day. It is little wonder that there is a special type of
adolescent insanity differing entirely from that of later years, one in which,
owing to the want of full development of mental faculties, there are no
systematised delusions, but a rapid change from depression and melancholy to
exaltation bordering on mania. Those parents and guardians who know something of
the peculiar physical and mental conditions of adolescence will be best prepared
both to treat the troubles wisely, and by sympathy to help the young people
under their care to help themselves.
One of the phenomena of adolescence is the dawn of the sexual instinct. This
frequently develops without the child knowing or understanding what it means.
More especially is this true of young girls whose home life has been completely
sheltered, and who have not had the advantage, or disadvantage, of that
experience of life which comes early to those who live in crowded tenements or
amongst the outspoken people of the countryside. The children of the poorer
classes have, in a way, too little to learn: they are brought
up from babyhood in the midst of all domestic concerns, and the love affairs of
their elders are intimately known to them, therefore quite early in adolescence
"ilka lassie has her laddie," and although the attraction be short-lived and the
affection very superficial, yet it is sufficient to give an added interest to
life, and generally leads to an increased care in dress and an increased desire
to make the most of whatever good looks the girl may possess. The girl in richer
homes is probably much more bewildered by her unwonted sensations and by the
attraction she begins to feel towards the society of the opposite sex.
Probably in these days, when there is more intermingling of the sexes, the
girl's outlook is franker, and, so far as this is concerned, healthier, than it
was forty or fifty years ago. It is very amusing to elders to hear a boy
scarcely in his teens talking of "his best girl," or to see the little lass
wearing the colour or ornament that her chosen lad admires. It is true that the
"best girl" varies from week to week if not from day to day, but this special
regard for a member of the opposite sex announces the dawn of a simple sentiment
that will, a few years later, blossom out into the real passion which may fix a
life's destiny.
The mental and moral changes that occur during the early years of adolescence
call for help and sympathy of an even higher order than do the changes in
physical structure and function. Some of these changes, such as shyness and
reticence, may be the cause of considerable suffering to the
girl and a perplexity to her elders, but on the whole they are comparatively
easy of comprehension, and are more likely to elicit sympathy and kindness than
blame. It is far otherwise with such changes as unseemly laughter, rough
manners, and a nameless difference in the girl's manner when in the presence of
the other sex. A girl who is usually quiet, modest, and sensible in her
behaviour may suddenly become boisterous and self-asserting, there is a great
deal of giggling, and altogether a disagreeable transformation which too
frequently involves the girl in trouble with her mother or other guardian, and
is very frequently harshly judged by the child herself. In proportion as
self-discipline has been taught and self-control acquired, these outward
manifestations are less marked, but in the case of the great majority of girls
there are, at any rate, impulses having their origin in the yet immature and
misunderstood sex impulse which cause the young woman herself annoyance and
worry although she is as far from understanding their origin as her elders may
be. The remedies for these troubles are various. First in order of time and in
importance comes a habit of self-control and self-discipline that ought to be
coeval with conscious life. Fathers and mothers are themselves to blame if their
girl lapses from good behaviour when they have not inculcated ideals of
obedience, duty, and self-discipline from babyhood. It seems such a little thing
to let the child have its run of the cake-basket and the sweet-box; it is in the eyes of many parents so unimportant whether the little one
goes to bed at the appointed time or ten minutes later; they argue that it can
make no difference to her welfare in life or to her eternal destiny whether her
obedience is prompt and cheerful or grudging and imperfect. One might as well
argue that the proper planting of a seed, its regular watering, and the
influences of sun and wind make no difference to the life of a tree. We have to
bear carefully in mind that those who sow an act reap a habit, who sow a habit
reap a character, who sow a character reap a destiny both in this world and in
that which is eternal. It is mere selfishness, unconscious, no doubt, but none
the less fatal, when parents to suit their own convenience omit to inculcate
obedience, self-restraint, habits of order and unselfishness in their children.
Youth is the time when the soul is apt to be shaken by sorrow's power and when
stormy passions rage. The tiny rill starting from the mountainside can be
readily deflected east or west, but the majestic river hastening to the sea is
beyond all such arbitrary directions. So it is with the human being: the
character and habit are directed easily in infancy, with difficulty during
childhood, but they are well-nigh impossible of direction by the time
adolescence is established. Those fathers and mothers who desire to have
happiness and peace in connection with their adolescent boys and girls must take
the trouble to direct them aright during the plastic years of infancy and
childhood. All natural instincts implanted in us by Him who
knew what was in the heart of man are in themselves right and good, but the
exercise of these instincts may be entirely wrong in time or in degree. The
sexual instinct, the affinity of boy to girl, the love of adult man and woman,
are right and holy when exercised aright, and it is the result of "spoiling"
when these good and noble instincts are wrongly exercised. All who love their
country, all who love their fellow men, and all who desire that the kingdom of
God should come, must surely do everything that is in their power to awaken the
fathers and mothers of the land to a sense of their heavy responsibility and of
their high privilege. In this we are entirely separated from and higher than the
rest of the animal creation, in that on us lies the duty not only of calling
into life a new generation of human beings, but also the still higher duty, the
still greater privilege and the wider responsibility of bringing up those
children to be themselves the worthy parents of the future, the supporters of
their country's dignity, and joyful citizens of the household of God.
Another characteristic of adolescence is to be found in gregariousness, or
what has been sometimes called the gang spirit. Boys, and to almost as
great a degree girls, form themselves into companies or gangs, which frequently
possess a high degree of organisation. They elaborate special languages, they
have their own form of shorthand, their passwords, their rites and ceremonies.
The gang has its elected leader, its officers, its members; and although it is
liable to sudden disruption and seldom outlasts a few terms
of school-life, each succeeding club or company is for the time being of
paramount importance in the estimation of its members. The gang spirit may at
times cause trouble and lead to anxiety, but if rightly directed it may be
turned to good account. It is the germ of the future capacity to organise men
and women into corporate life—the very method by which much public and national
work is readily accomplished, but which is impossible to accomplish by
individual effort.
3. Changes in the Religion of the Adolescent.—The religion of the
adolescent is apt to be marked by fervour and earnest conviction, the phenomenon
of "conversion" almost constantly occurring during adolescence. The girl looks
upon eternal truths from a completely new standpoint, or at any rate with eyes
that have been purged and illuminated by the throes of conversion. From a period
of great anxiety and doubt she emerges to a time of intense love and devotion,
to an eager desire to prove herself worthy, and to offer a sacrifice of the best
powers she possesses. Unfortunately for peace of mind, the happy epoch
succeeding conversion not unfrequently ends in a dismal time of intellectual
doubt and spiritual darkness. Just as the embryonic love of the youthful
adolescent leads to a time when the opposite sex is rather an object of dislike
than of attraction, so the fervour of early conversion is apt to lead to a time
of desolation; but just as the incomplete sex love of early adolescence finds
its antitype and fine flower in the later fully developed love of honourable man and woman, so does the too rapturous and uncalculating
religious devotion of these early years revive after the period of doubt,
transfigured and glorified into the religious conviction and devotion which
makes the strength, the joy, and the guiding principle of adult life.
Much depends on the circumstances and people surrounding the adolescent. Her
unbounded capacity for hero-worship leads in many instances to a conscious or
unconscious copying of parent, guardian, or teacher; and although the ideals of
the young are apt to far outpace those of the adult whose days of illusion are
over, yet they are probably formed on the same type. One sees this illustrated
by generations in the same family holding much the same religious or political
opinions and showing the same aptitude for certain professions, games, and
pursuits. Much there is in heredity, but probably there is still more in
environment.